Nate Berkus Quotes:

You will enrich your life immeasurably if you approach it with a sense of wonder and discovery, and always challenge yourself to try new things.

Topics: Discovery, Challenges, Trying, Challenge Yourself, Sense Of Wonder

Your home should tell the story of who you are, and be a collection of what you love brought together under one roof.

source: - "Sitting Down With Nate Berkus". Interview with Marni Golden, hamptons-magazine.com. September 7, 2011.

Topics: Home, Together, Stories, Homemaking, Home Sweet Home

Your home should tell the story of who you are.

Topics: Home, Stories, Should

In a minimal interior, what you don't do is as important as what you do.

Topics: Important

I believe your home tells a story about who you are and who you aspire to be. We represent ourselves through the things we own. I don't believe in trends. I believe in collecting things that you connect with. We should surround ourselves with things we care about, that have meaning.

Topics: Believe, Home, Stories, Collecting Things

In a modern loft, you can't just fill a space with furniture. Each piece has to be perfect.

Topics: Space, Perfect, Furniture

The truth is that things matter. They have to, they are what we live with and touch each and every day. They represent what we've seen, who we've loved and where we hope to go next. They remind us of the good times and the rough patches and everything in between that's made us who we are.

source: - Nate Berkus (2012). “The Things That Matter”, p.10, Spiegel & Grau

Topics: Who We Are, Matter, Next, Representing, Rough Patches

Home has always been one of the most important things. If I don't feel at home in my space, then I feel really unmoored.

source: - "See How Designer Nate Berkus Renovated His 19th-Century New York City Duplex" by Samuel Cochran, www.architecturaldigest.com. November 2012.

Topics: Home, Space, Important, My Space

Everywhere in my house are these little things that have meanings and make me think of great memories.

Topics: Memories, Thinking, House, Great Memories

I got my first Charvet knit tie when I was 15. I actually stole it from my father. I love them because you can wear them day to night. They're French and preppy and have been around since the 1800s.

Topics: Father, Night, Ties, Preppy

Go outside! I mean, even leaves from a park are beautiful in a clear glass vase. I'd rather see that than fake anything any day.

Topics: Beautiful, Mean, Glasses

Mixing in some rusty oranges is a warm way to update your place for fall.

Topics: Fall, Orange, Way

I like my house to be unique to me. Sure, I've bought plenty of things out of a catalog, but the way I put them together in my home is special. You might have bought your sofa at a major home decorating store, but the rug you found at the flea market is so unique, it takes your room from 'carbon copy' to 'simply yours' in no time.

Topics: Home, Unique, House, Special You, Decorating

I was barely in grade school when I helped my mother rearrange the living room furniture for the first time.

Topics: Mother, School, Rooms

Books are the heart of any home, and I spend hours going through books for design inspiration.

Topics: Book, Inspiration, Home, Design Inspiration

I don't believe in having spaces in the home that don't get used. We pay so much for square footage that to waste it is criminal.

Topics: Believe, Home, Squares

I tend not to wear ties very often. I'm usually in old stuff: Hermes or Marc Jacobs boots and jeans and a T-shirt and a leather jacket or a jean jacket.

Topics: Jeans, Ties, Boots, Old Stuff, Leather Jackets

I made my parents crazy. As a kid, I redecorated my bedroom every month. I would literally save my allowance and go buy things.

Topics: Crazy, Kids, Parent

I can change a light fixture, and I can do certain things. But I'm really bad in terms of construction. I can't do any of it on my own.

Topics: Light, Construction, Certain, Fixture

You can change the feel of your sofa by adding a thick, cozy throw and playing a couple of classic pillows off a more Moroccan-inspired one.

Topics: Couple, Cozy, Classic

You don't need to spend a lot of money on stuff when you have amazing architecture.

Topics: Needs, Stuff, Architecture

They used to tease me at the 'Oprah' show, 'Are you really going to do another white Shaker kitchen, with white subway tile and stainless steel appliances?' And my answer is, 'I can vary it a bit, but I'm never going to err from classic materials.'

Topics: White, Kitchen, Steel, Vary, Tease Me

Design, to me, is part psychology, part sociology, and part magic. A good decorator should know what's going on in someone's marriage and how their kids are doing in school.

Topics: School, Kids, Design, Decorators

It's important how we feel in our homes, because feeling good makes us more gracious. And that makes it easier to welcome others not only into our homes but into our lives.

source: - "Nate Berkus: Why You Should Break the Rules When Decorating Your Home". Interview with Lisa Kogan, www.oprah.com. February 8, 2011.

Topics: Home, Feel Good, Feelings

Everywhere your eye travels in your home, it should land on something that resonates with you.

Topics: Home, Eye, Land

I see it every day: People trying to create a home that somebody else tells them they should have. I don't care if it's a magazine or a bossy friend - when somebody says, 'This is what's elegant, this is what's trendy,' if it doesn't represent you, you're not going to be happy.

Topics: Home, Should Have, People, Bossy

I always want objects in my home that have a connection to me or something I've loved. It's still stuff, but it's stuff that has meaning.

Topics: Home, Connections, Want

I've always felt that color is intrinsically personal. It evokes a tremendous amount of emotion. If there's a color you respond to, that's something you can incorporate into your home. No one can tell you it's wrong.

Topics: Home, Color, Emotion

The Things That Matter convincingly lays out Nate Berkus’s philosophy that things do matter. Our homes tell our stories, they reflect the places we’ve been and the people we’ve loved along the way—and there can be no more beautiful design for living than that.

Topics: Beautiful, Philosophy, Home, Things That Matter, Beautiful Design

Before you begin designing or buying anything, you need to get real and ask yourself: What do you really want to use this room for? What do you want to do in this room but can't now?

Topics: Real, Design, Needs

If you actually keep things very organized and clutter-free, you can have more furniture than you think you can in a small space.

Topics: Thinking, Space, Furniture, Small Spaces

Thread count is actually a lie. Just because a thread count is 1,500 on a set of sheets doesn't mean that they're well-made sheets. Truly, the quality of the cotton and the quality of the way something is woven is much more important than thread count.

source: - Interview with Sachin Bhola, uk.askmen.com.

Topics: Lying, Mean, Important

About 80 percent of the stuff I live with is old. I like letting things take on the character they’re meant to have by really being used. … when you own things that have the imperfections they deserve, that they’ve earned from a well-lived life, it frees you from feeling as though they’re untouchable.

source: - "Nate Berkus: Why You Should Break the Rules When Decorating Your Home". Interview with Lisa Kogan, February 8, 2011.

Topics: Character, Imperfection, Feelings, Untouchables

Color is a very personal thing. You need to make sure to choose a color that makes you happy. But I don't recommend accent walls - choose a color you can live with on all four walls.

Topics: Wall, Color, Needs, Four Walls

I hate sets. I've always hated sets. I think that if you have a dining room set, break it up!

Topics: Hate, Thinking, Dining

You don't have to paint your walls lime green just to try to have your home feel decorated. If you're a classic dresser or preppy dresser or a modern dresser, you wear a lot of black - whatever it is - your home should reflect that as well.

source: - "Should A Grown Man Really Have A "Man Cave"?". Interview with Sachin Bhola, www.askmen.com.

Topics: Wall, Home, Black, Dressers, Lime Green

When you buy things that are expensive, like a sofa or something that really feels like an investment, you need to keep it as plain as possible, as simple as possible. Make sure that it's a clean design that will work with whatever style you want it to.

Topics: Simple, Design, Style

About 90 percent of the pieces in my home are vintage, and I'm a ruthless editor. I only live with things that I love. There is not one thing in my home that doesn't have meaning to me.

source: - "Ten Questions: Nate Berkus" by Yale Breslin, www.elle.com. October 16, 2012.

Topics: Home, Vintage, Editors

When you have a bunch of comfortable upholstered pieces, a single bronze or brass chair really turns the energy up.

Topics: Energy, Pieces, Chairs

In every interior my firm and I design, we are always reaching for vintage pieces, and materials that feel classic and timeless. It's how I feel about fashion as well, and definitely one of the intentions I had when designing the layette collection. I'm not a fan of trends.

source: - Source: people.com

Topics: Fashion, Design, Classic

There's something I call 'Moving Day,' which I've done for the last 20 years. Look at everything in your home, then think about how you could combine things in a different way. Maybe you break up your night tables and use one in the family room; maybe the dining room sideboard becomes a console table for your television, with storage underneath.

Topics: Moving, Home, Thinking

A lot of guys go in immediately for status, as opposed to comfort and allowing their home to tell a story about them.

Topics: Home, Guy, Comfort

There’s something beautiful and very circular about passing by something that was important to the person you loved, or touching something that once meant something to him — that brings me some peace.

source: - "Nate Berkus: Why You Should Break the Rules When Decorating Your Home". Interview with Lisa Kogan, www.oprah.com.

Topics: Beautiful, Passing By, Touching

I have a large watch collection, and classic watches are especially important to me. I had a silver Rolex, and I actually gave it to my little brother. He wears it every day. He's an actor, so whenever he goes to an audition, he can look down, see it, and it gives him confidence. It was a great thing to pass on.

Topics: Brother, Giving, Important, My Little Brother, Rolex

I really can't live without my In-N-Out burgers. Honestly, I can't. Even when I'm doing the whole no-carb thing occasionally, I make an exception for these. They're too delicious to count.

Topics: Burgers, Carbs, Honestly

One of the biggest lessons I've learned during my time on 'Oprah' is that everyone wants to be heard. We all want to have our humanity acknowledged - to have others see us for who we truly are. We all want to know that we are valued, we are heard, we are understood.

Topics: Humanity, Lessons, Want

I always had this New York fantasy of living in a glass high-rise.

Topics: New York, Glasses, Fantasy

In a small space, you want to keep the bedding as simple as possible so it looks clean, calm and collected.

Topics: Simple, Space, Looks, Bedding, Small Spaces

I do shop online! But I’m shopping online mostly in the home categories - One Kings Lane and Gilt. At a lot of architectural websites, I buy a lot of hardware for cabinetry like hinges and things like that from England. So you know for me, I shop at Net-A-Porter, but I don’t really shop that much for clothing online.

source: - "Nate Berkus on Selling His Old Prada, Hermès, and More". Interview with Julie Ma, www.thecut.com. May 16, 2013.

Topics: Kings, Home, Shopping

I think that a lot of guys reach for electronics first, but the truth is that you can never keep up with electronics. You buy a flat-screen TV, and then six months later, there's one that has 3D and Blu-ray and all this business, and that is just going to keep continuing.

Topics: Thinking, Guy, Months

I knew that I was a gay boy fairly early; what was interesting to me was that my mother didn’t know. She made me play baseball - I had no desire to do that. I said, ‘Mom, I don’t like direct sunlight, I don’t like bugs, I don’t like grass, and I’d rather be in the house playing with your fabric samples.’

source: - "Nate Berkus Talks Being Gay, Coming Out And Loss Of Longtime Partner With Joy Behar". www.huffingtonpost.com. October 21, 2012.

Topics: Mom, Baseball, Mother

Layering in different patterns will keep things from appearing too studied.

Topics: Different, Patterns, Appearing

Buying found objects means repurposing something that was already made years before, sometimes decades before. It strikes a nice balance between the new and used equation we should strive for in our lives.

Topics: Nice, Mean, Found Objects

As a designer, everything is always about aesthetics mixed in with functionality and having that visual appeal. But you learn fast as a new parent with an infant that if it’s not deeply practical as well, then forget about it. Style wise, I wanted to design items that would work well in any nursery - regardless of gender.

source: - "Nate Berkus Jokes Daughter Poppy Knows What She Wants When It Comes to Fashion: 'She's Incredibly Opinionated'". Interview with Anya Leon, people.com. January 6, 2017.

Topics: Wise, Design, Parent

I am not ever in the business of making anyone feel bad.

Topics: Feels

The truth of the matter is being gay is the way I was born. I believe this to the core of my being.

Topics: Believe, Gay, Matter

Even as a 10-year-old, I remember trying to explain to my mother and stepfather how upset and frustrated a messy room made me. But they just couldn't grasp it. They wanted me to be playing with baseballs and frogs while I wanted to be scouring garage sales.

Topics: Baseball, Mother, Years, Stepfathers, Garage Sale

I didn't grow up thinking I'd be a decorator. Design is my greatest passion, and it naturally just pulled me down the path. Same with TV. Being famous or having a show was never the motivation. I got a call and was swept up by the challenge of that first small space redesign.

Topics: Growing Up, Motivation, Passion, Decorators, Redesign

As a kid, I think I rearranged the rooms of almost every house on the block.

Topics: Block, Kids, Thinking

I live in a beautiful vintage building that was built in the heart of downtown Chicago.

Topics: Beautiful, Heart, Vintage, Downtown Chicago

When I see a wall that's hung with different objects, framed or unframed, what I like about it is its fluidity and rule-breaking nature. Just experiment a bit.

Topics: Wall, Different, Fluidity

I think I was the only kid on the block who knew about furniture scale by the time I was 8.

Topics: Block, Kids, Thinking

First and foremost, I'm a decorator and product designer. Everything I do, the television shows, the books, that comes from the design work. It's what I love.

Topics: Book, Design Work, Television, Decorators, Television Shows

It's my job to know what's available from every retailer, catalog, website, antiques mall, and craftsperson. A good designer or decorator has to have an almost encyclopedic knowledge.

Topics: Jobs, Antiques, Designer, Decorators, Retailers

You can find a lot of reasonable buys at Wal-Mart. But one key to making it on a budget is by donating your time and labor to the project. Do-it-yourself projects will always help you save.

Topics: Keys, Helping, Projects

When I take on a design project, I have to jet from the bookstore to the hardware shop to the lamp store and back again just to collect a small portion of the many items I need to fill a home. But, when you hit the flea market, they're all right there. From booth to booth, you have the bases covered.

Topics: Home, Design, Fleas, Flea Markets

Some kids spent their allowance going to see 'Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom'; I spent mine on a great-looking lamp I'd found at the flea market and a ceramic bowl from a neighborhood garage sale.

Topics: Kids, Indiana, Fleas, Garage Sale, Ceramics

In design-speak, 'a library' means a room lined with books, floor-to ceiling, but it all depends on the space you have. You may have a free-standing bookshelf of your favorite books if that's all you have room for.

Topics: Book, Mean, Space, Favorite Book, Bookshelves

We hold back our true feelings and beliefs, whether it's from a sense of being polite or fear of hurting someone's feelings. But what I have seen on 'The Oprah Winfrey Show' is that no one benefits from holding back and keeping things bottled up inside. So I pride myself on speaking my mind and not being afraid to give honest feedback.

Topics: Hurt, Pride, Speaking My Mind, True Feelings, Hurting Someone

I'm not going to say paint is an easy spruce-up. It takes time, it needs touch-ups, and you have to be very methodical. But it is worth it, and it isn't particularly expensive.

Topics: Needs, Easy, Paint, Methodical

I didn't necessarily want to be famous growing up, but I knew I would be a good famous person because I'm not offended if somebody comes up to me and knows things about me and wants to engage me in a conversation.

Topics: Growing Up, Would Be, Want

Twitter is a place where you share your thoughts, yourself... you don't want a plain white backdrop for that. You want the entire page to say something about who you are. Designer or not, if the urge strikes you, go for it. Put up that watercolor you've never shown anyone. Take a photo of that hat you just knitted... whatever it is, share it.

source: - "Oprah's Designer Nate Berkus Tackles Twitter Backgrounds". Interview with Christina Warren, mashable.com. January 25, 2010.

Topics: White, Want, Pages, Watercolors, Backdrop

Working on 'Big Give' was an opportunity that I felt compelled to do. It was my chance to share in showing people how they can give big in their own life, to send the message that giving goes way beyond the gift of money. We want to share that the best thing you can give is your time and understanding.

Topics: Opportunity, People, Giving

You can't be around Oprah and not have her influence you, and I don't mean that because she's doling out the free advice. I mean it because she is someone that leads with truth and follows her heart. She's a force.

Topics: Heart, Mean, Advice, Free Advice

People first. Dogs second. Things last.

source: - "Nate Berkus: Why You Should Break the Rules When Decorating Your Home". Interview with Lisa Kogan, www.oprah.com. February 8, 2011.

Topics: Dog, People, Lasts

'Priced to sell' - just the phrase makes me smile. When a dealer says all the items in his booth are priced to sell, he means he's tagged them as aggressively as he can to get you to buy them. Don't worry, though, I still haggle. You have to. That's the point of a flea market.

Topics: Mean, Worry, Fleas, Make Me Smile, Tagged

I can look at a photo and the dimensions of any piece and tell you if it's going to sit well with the four other pieces in your room.

Topics: Dimensions, Looks, Pieces, Your Room

We're not handling things anymore before they arrive on our doorstep. I like to feel how thin porcelain can be, run my hand over a textile, see if I want to sit in a chair.

Topics: Running, Hands, Textiles, Porcelain, Doorstep

I'm interested in fashion; I buy fairly good pieces, and I think as I've gotten older, I've pared down a lot.

Topics: Fashion, Thinking, Pieces

My favorite thing about decorating is mixing different periods and styles. If you have something that's old, and you really do want to mix those styles, then you have to add something that's obviously modern with it. You can't put a kind of a mediocre thing in the middle.

Topics: Style, Favorites Things, Mixing, Decorating

I love linen in soothing colors for any room in the house.

Topics: Color, House, Rooms, Linen

I was a boy with one dream and one dream only: I wanted - no, strike that, I was desperate for - a room of my own. You see, in those days I shared a room with my little brother, Jesse, and it wasn't pretty. He was the Oscar to my Felix: messy, careless, and just a little bit sticky - exactly the way a kindergartner is supposed to be.

Topics: Dream, Brother, Boys, My Little Brother, Sticky