John Gray quotes

  • Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudy and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles.
    -- John Gray

    #Summer #Spring #Fall

  • When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.
    -- John Gray

    #Encouragement #Appreciation #Acceptance

  • Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.
    -- John Gray

    #Love #Friendship #Relationship

  • To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate goodness. It is as though they cannot know how worthy they are until they look into the mirror of our love and see themselves.
    -- John Gray

    #Love You #Mirrors #Looks

  • If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.
    -- John Gray

    #Successful #Winning #Secret

  • Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.
    -- John Gray

    #Support #Needs

  • Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love . The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .
    -- John Gray

    #Memories #Feelings #One Day

  • If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.
    -- John Gray

    #Gratitude #Sadness #Feelings

  • when man and women are able to respect and accept there differences the love has a chance to blossom
    -- John Gray

    #Men #Differences #Able

  • I would love you all the day, every night we would kiss and play, if with me you'd fondly stray, over the hills and far away.
    -- John Gray

    #Love You #Kissing #Night

  • Our lives are more like fragmentary dreams than the enactments of conscious selves. We control very little of what we most care about; many of our most fateful decisions are made unbeknownst to ourselves. Yet we insist that mankind can achieve what we cannot: conscious mastery of its existence. This is the creed of those who have given up an irrational belief in God for an irrational faith in mankind.
    -- John Gray

    #Dream #Self #Decision

  • Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves
    -- John Gray

    #Love You #Support #Partners

  • we are unique individuals with unique experiences
    -- John Gray

    #Unique #Individual #Unique Experiences

  • That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.
    -- John Gray

    #Appreciate #Cherish #Admire

  • always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself
    -- John Gray

    #Nice #Distance #Weather