Will Schwalbe Quotes:

What I suddenly understood was that a thank-you note isn't the price you pay for receiving a gift, as so many children think it is, a kind of minimum tribute or toll, but an opportunity to count your blessings. And gratitude isn't what you give in exchange for something; it's what you feel when you are blessed--blessed to have family and friends who care about you, and who want to see you happy. Hence the joy from thanking.

Topics: Gratitude, Children, Blessed, Count Your Blessings, Want To See You

The greatest gift you can give anyone is your undivided attention...

Topics: Giving, Attention, Undivided Attention

You can truly miss characters. Not like you miss people, but you can still miss them.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.129, Vintage

Topics: Character, People, Missing

You don't have to have one emotion at a time.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.77, Vintage

Topics: Emotion

In an idealized world, we would all be able to do what our English teachers told us to do, which is to write beautiful prose where enthusiasm is conveyed by word choice and grammar.

Topics: Beautiful, Teacher, Writing, Word Choice

With FIVE DAYS, Douglas Kennedy has crafted a brilliant meditation on regret, fidelity, family, and second chances that will have you breathlessly turning pages to find out what happened in the past and what will happen next. At once heartbreaking and hopeful, it is a powerful new work of fiction by an internationally acclaimed writer at the height of his powers.

Topics: Powerful, Regret, Past, New Work

In Gilead, the narrator's friend's son describes himself not as an atheist but in "state of categorical unbelief." He says, "I don't even believe God doesn't exist, if you see what I mean." I pointed this passage out to Mom and said it closely matched my own views-I just didn't think about religion.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.85, Vintage

Topics: Mom, Atheist, Believe, Matched

It's not hard to read about death abstractly. I do find it tough when a character I love dies, of course. You can truly miss characters. Not like you miss people, but you can still miss them.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.129, Vintage

Topics: Missing Someone, Character, People

If our family was an airline, Mom was the hub and we were the spokes. You rarely went anywhere nonstop; you went via Mom, who directed the traffic flow and determined the priorities: which family member was cleared for takeoff or landing. Even my father was not immune to Mom's scheduling, though he was given more leeway than the rest of us.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.13, Vintage

Topics: Mom, Father, Priorities, Takeoff, Scheduling

One of the many things I love about bound books is their sheer physicality. Electronic books live out of sight and out of mind. But printed books have body, presence. Sure, sometimes they'll elude you by hiding in improbable places... But at other times they'll confront you, and you'll literally stumble over some tomes you hadn't thought about in weeks or years. I often seek electronic books, but they never come after me. They may make me feel, but I can't feel them. They are all soul with no flesh, no texture, and no weight. They can get in your head but can't whack you upside it.

Topics: Book, Sight, Years, Printed Books, Improbable

I was learning that when you're with someone who is dying, you may need to celebrate the past, live the present, and mourn the future all at the same time.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.112, Vintage

Topics: Past, Dying, May, Someone Who Is Dying

Evil almost always starts with small cruelties.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.130, Vintage

Topics: Evil, Cruelty

If I'd waited until I was well rested to read, I never would have read anything.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.209, Vintage

Topics: Wells

We all have a lot more to read than we can read and a lot more to do than we can do.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.11, Vintage

Reading isn't the opposite of doing, it's the opposite of dying.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.11, Vintage

Topics: Reading, Opposites, Dying

We all owe everyone for everything that happens in our lives. But it's not owing like a debt to one person--it's really that we owe everyone for everything. Our whole lives can change in an instant--so each person that keeps that from happening, no matter how small a role they play, is also responsible for all of it. Just by giving friendship and love, you keep the people around you from giving up--and each expression of friendship or love may be the one that makes all the difference.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.180, Vintage

Topics: Giving Up, Love You, Expression, Life Can Change In An Instant

...in the eyes of her oldest friends and colleagues and extended family, she wasn't a painfully thin seventy-five-year-old gray haired woman dying of cancer- she was a grade school class president, the young friend you gossiped with, a date or double date, someone to share a tent with in Darfur, a fellow election monitor in Bosnia, a mentor, a teacher you'd laughed within a classroom or a faculty lounge, or the board member you'd groaned with after a contentious meeting

Topics: Teacher, Cancer, School, Darfur, Oldest Friends

But it takes so little to help people, and people really do help each other, even people with very little themselves. And it’s not just about second chances. Most people deserve an endless number of chances.

Topics: Second Chance, Numbers, People

That’s one of the things books do. They help us talk. But they also give us something we all can talk about when we don’t want to talk about ourselves.

source: - Will Schwalbe (2012). “The End of Your Life Book Club”, p.52, Vintage

Topics: Book, Giving, Want

And my first item on each day's list is this: Wake up. If I can check that off, I've already done something and can get on with the business of living and trying to honor the memory of those I love who are no longer here.

source: - "7 Ways to Get Through a Painful Loss" by Will Schwalbe, www.oprah.com. January 4, 2013.

Topics: Memories, Honor, Trying, Items

We’re all in the end-of-our-life book club, whether we acknowledge it or not; each book we read may well be the last, each conversation the final one.

Topics: Book, Finals, Clubs, Book Club

As a reader, you’re often inside one or more character heads, so you know what they’re feeling, even if they can’t exactly say it, or they say it so obliquely that the other characters don’t catch it. Readers are frequently reminded of the gulf between what people say and what they mean, and such moments prod us to become more attuned to gesture, tone, and language.

Topics: Character, Mean, People