Ocupation: Poet
Life: b. November 30, 1944
Birthday: November 30
Although it's not useful to drown in despair, it's also not useful to keep a 'positive attitude' when this means concealing or denying real emotions.
source: Harriet Goldhor Lerner (1996). “Life preservers: staying afloat in love and life”
topic: Attitude, Real, Mean, Real Emotion