Defining Ourselves Quotes:

Right and wrong are concepts that only have meaning in this world, so by sorting existence on those characteristics, we are defining ourselves to exist only in this world.

- Frederick Lenz

topic: Buddhism, Balance, Defining Ourselves, Sorting

If we stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by who we are we can all be freer. And this is what HeforShe is about. It’s about freedom.

- Emma Watson

source: United Nations Address on Gender Equality, delivered 20 September 2014

topic: Defining Ourselves, Who We Are, Defining

It's never been true, not anywhere at anytime, that the value of a soul, of a human spirit, is dependent on a number on a scale.

- Geneen Roth

topic: Numbers, Soul, Spirit, Sundaes, Deep Within

We insist on being Someone, with a capital S. We get security from defining ourselves as worthless or worthy, superior or inferior. We waste precious time exaggerating or romanticizing or belittling ourselves with a complacent surety that yes, that’s who we are. We mistake the openness of our being—the inherent wonder and surprise of each moment—for a solid, irrefutable self. Because of this misunderstanding, we suffer.

- Pema Chodron

topic: Mistake, Self, Suffering, Exaggerating, Defining Ourselves

Decisions are a way of defining ourselves. There comes a time in life when there is nothing else to do but go your own way. Where you are headed there are no trails, no paths, just your own instincts.

- Sergio Bambaren

source: Vincent Price (2016). “I Like What I Know: A Visual Autobiography”, p.94, Open Road Media

topic: Careers, Decision, Way, Defining Ourselves, Listen To Yourself

In America, the stories we tell ourselves and we tell each other in fiction have to do with individualism. Every person here is the center of his or her own story. And our job as people and as characters is to find our own motivations and desires, to overcome conflicts and obstacles toward defining ourselves so that we grow and change.

- Adam Johnson

topic: Jobs, Motivation, Character, Defining Ourselves