Leslie Jamison Quotes:

I'm happy not knowing. Most of the time (except when I'm a neurotic mess about uncertainty) I feel glad that the horizon is a mystery.

Topics: Knowing, Anxiety, Horizon

The global phenomenon of poverty tourism - or 'poorism' - has become increasingly popular during the past few years. Tourists pay to be guided through the favelas of Brazil and the shantytowns of South Africa. The recently opened Los Angeles Gang Tour carries visitors through battle-scarred territories of urban violence and deprivation.

Topics: Past, Years, Battle, Favelas, Gang Violence

The publishing industry, unsurprisingly, is full of different people who love different things and express that love in different languages. Find the people, the editors and agents, with whom you share some language, and some sense of what makes literature worth reading.

Topics: Reading, Editors, People, Publishing Industry, Worth Reading

Though there might not be any easy answers to the problem of poverty, its most compelling scribes do not resign themselves to representation solely for the sake of those age-old verities of truth and beauty.

Topics: Age, Answers, Might, Scribes, Truth And Beauty

Whenever I've been stuck on a project, it's always brought me solace to the return to books that moved me in the past. It's a nice way to get outside my own head; and it brings me back to one of the most important reasons I write at all: to bring some pleasure to readers, to make them think or feel.

Topics: Nice, Book, Writing

You pass the old L.A. County jail, which is surprisingly beautiful. It's got a handsome stone facade and stately columns. The new L.A. County jail - called The Twin Towers - isn't beautiful at all; it's a stucco panopticon the color of sick flesh.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.72, Granta Books

Topics: Beautiful, Color, Jail, Twin Towers

I needed people to deliver my feelings back to me in a form that was legible. Which is a superlative kind of empathy to seek, or to supply: an empathy that rearticulates more clearly what it's shown.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.16, Granta Books

Topics: People, Empathy, Feelings, Superlatives

Commonality doesn't inoculate against hurt.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.13, Granta Books

Topics: Hurt, Commonality

We think we should have to work in order to feel. We want to have our cake resist us; and then we want to eat it, too.

Topics: Thinking, Order, Cake

Imagining someone else's pain with too much surety can be as damaging as failing to imagine it.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.21, Granta Books

Topics: Pain, Too Much, Failing

It's one of the most liberating things I experience in writing - letting yourself get rid of a gesture or character or plot point that always nagged, even if you couldn't admit to yourself that it did.

Topics: Writing, Character, Plot

I've been lucky enough to work with extraordinary teachers along the way, and I'm excited to share what I've learned with graduate students at SNHU. I'm just as excited for what I'll learn from them.

Topics: Teacher, Lucky, Way

Armchair poverty tourism has been around as long as authors have written about class. As an author, I have struggled myself with the nuances of writing about poverty without reducing any community to a catalog of its difficulties.

Topics: Writing, Class, Long, Armchairs

We don't want to be wounds ("No, you're the wound!") but we should be allowed to have them, to speak about having them, to be something more than just another girl who has one. We should be able to do these things without failing the feminism of our mothers, and we should be able to represent women who hurt without walking backward into a voyeuristic rehashing of the old cultural models.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.174, Granta Books

Topics: Girl, Mother, Hurt, Other Girl, Another Girl

Empathy requires knowing that you know nothing.

Topics: Knowing, Empathy

No trauma has discrete edges. Trauma bleeds. Out of wounds and across boundaries.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.9, Granta Books

Topics: Boundaries, Trauma, Wounds, Discrete

I loved the full heat of being drunk, like I was made of melting chocolate and spreading in all directions.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2010). “The Gin Closet”, p.52, Simon and Schuster

Topics: Drunk, Chocolate, Melting, Being Drunk

The pain is what you make of it. You have to find something in it that yields. I understood my guiding imperative as: keep bleeding, but find some love in the blood.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.167, Granta Books

Topics: Pain, Yield, Blood

Post-​wounded women know that postures of pain play into limited and outmoded conceptions of womanhood. Their hurt has a new native language spoken in several dialects: sarcastic, jaded, opaque; cool and clever. They guard against those moments when melodrama or self-​pity might split their careful seams of intellect, expose the shame of self-​absorption without self-​awareness.

Topics: Sarcastic, Hurt, Clever

After finishing a draft, no matter how rough, I almost always put it aside for a while. It doesn't matter if it's a story or a novel, I find that when it's still fresh in my mind I'm either thoroughly sick of its flaws or completely blind to them. Either way, I'm unable to make substantive edits of any value.

Topics: Sick, Mind, Finishing

Perhaps if we say it straight, we suspect, if we express our sentiments too excessively or too directly, we'll find we're nothing but banal.

Topics: Sentiments

Empathy isn’t just listening, it’s asking the questions whose answers need to be listened to. Empathy requires inquiry as much as imagination. Empathy requires knowing you know nothing. Empathy means acknowledging a horizon of context that extends perpetually beyond what you can see.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.8, Granta Books

Topics: Mean, Knowing, Imagination, Of Context

Empathy isn’t just something that happens to us — a meteor shower of synapses firing across the brain — it’s also a choice we make: to pay attention, to extend ourselves.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.23, Granta Books

Topics: Choices, Empathy, Brain, Meteors, Firing

When bad things happened to other people, I imagined them happening to me. I didn’t know if this was empathy or theft.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.20, Granta Books

Topics: People, Empathy, Theft

I think of empathy as a set of cumulative effects, ideally - that it can be a force shaping your habits, shaping where you put your attention and then - if you're hard on yourself, in good ways - pushing you to translate that attention into action, on whatever scale.

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Topics: Thinking, Empathy, Attention, Cumulative

I've been thinking so much about writing as a gift to readers - and how newness of subject (place or topic or person) is one of the biggest gifts at our disposal.

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Topics: Writing, Thinking, Topics

Empathy is cloaked in our actions - as in, we might be experiencing empathy but not realize it's empathy.

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Topics: Empathy, Our Actions, Might

Post-​wounded women know that postures of pain play into limited and outmoded conceptions of womanhood. Their hurt has a new native language spoken in several dialects: sarcastic, jaded, opaque; cool and clever. They guard against those moments when melodrama or self-​pity might split their careful seams of intellect, expose the shame of self-​absorption without self-​awareness.

Topics: Sarcastic, Hurt, Clever, Native Language, Absorption

Learning the edges or limits or sources of friction in empathy was one of the big issues for me.

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Topics: Issues, Empathy, Limits

Whatever we can’t hold, we hang on a hook that will hold it.

source: - Leslie Jamison (2014). “The Empathy Exams: Essays”, p.13, Granta Books

Topics: Hook

In my own life as a reader I experience real moments of alienation when a writer feels too perfect, or like even the flaws they are admitting are somehow noble, or dysfunctional in an overly edgy, aesthetically pleasing way.

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Topics: Real, Perfect, Admitting, Edgy

When people ask what kind of nonfiction I write, I say 'all kinds,' but really I mean I don’t write any kind at all: I’m trying to dissolve the borders between memoir and journalism and criticism by weaving them together.

Topics: Mean, Writing, People

I like thinking of the writer as a kind of curator; the collection as curiosity cabinet - in a non-demeaning, non-objectifying sense - but an array, a set of offerings.

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Topics: Curator, Objectifying

Sometimes I do feel exposed. I have this kind of theory about different channels or levels of relaying experience - when I tell someone, one on one, in a personal context, about something that's happened to me - that has a very different valence, a different charge, than when/if I've said it in a public forum.

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Topics: One On One