"Life isnâ€™t fair." I said. "Itâ€™s taken me a while to get that. Itâ€™s always going to disappoint you in some way or another. Youâ€™ll make plans, and itâ€™ll push you in another direction. You will love people, and theyâ€™ll be taken away no matter how hard you fight to keep them. Youâ€™ll try for something and wonâ€™t get it. You donâ€™t have to find meaning in it; you donâ€™t have to try to change things. You just have to accept the things that are out of your hands and try to take care of yourself. Thatâ€™s your job."